Dear Matt & Tamsen,
I am dating two different guys. If I could combine them, I would have the perfect man, but clearly that is not an option! How do I chose between the two? Or, should I keep dating both until a better one comes along.
You are in a difficult situation. The good news is you have a few choices; the bad news is you are eventually going to have to make a choice:
1. Choose between the two guys, by really determining who you are the most comfortable with. Physical attraction is important and there is no denying chemistry, but you should make your choice for the long term.
2. Continue dating both guys - which may be difficult for both you and them. This scenario could potentially mean you lose both guys but more time may help you make the right decision.
3. Say goodbye to both men and look for man #3 – you may risk losing two good guys but end up with a great guy who has everything you’re looking for.
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