Dear Matt & Tamsen,
How do you recommend acting the morning after sex? It’s always weird for me.
Picture this, he comes through the doorway with two steamy lattes in hand, and you are greeted by his sexy smile and those piercing baby blues. Suddenly, you are overcome by the realization that this man could be “the one.” Now what? Tell him you love him? Admit it was the best night of your life? Or go back to bed and hope he never asks you to leave.
Don’t linger.
Drink that foamy tall latte, grab your bag and find the door. You have plenty of places to be.
Use your minutes for someone else.
There were plenty of unspoken words last night, so let him call you, once you leave.
Don’t mark your territory.
Grab your sunglasses, pick up both earrings and don’t leave your lipstick stained water bottle on the nightstand. Three quick steps out the door will make for plenty of morning afters.
Quit daydreaming.
Yes, it was wonderful. He may just be Mr. Right. But, you cannot lose your identity just because you had an amazing night of passion. Go about your business and let him miss you when he goes to sleep tonight.
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