SERIOUS SEX: How To Bring Some “Au Naturale” Into Your Sex Life!
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August 26, 2010 @ 10:11 pm
August 26, 2010 @ 10:11 pm
More and more people are seeking healthy and natural alternatives when it comes to their bedroom fun!
Ever say your love life is like a bed of roses? Well those roses need to be kept sexy and blooming! If you're committed about having a healthy sex life you need to make sure you are aware of everything out there that will aid you in maintaining those romantic fires.
So where to begin? There seem to be millions of "experts" who'll sell you the "secrets" to sex, but those recipes are usually worthless cliches you've heard a thousand times before. The current trends in supporting your sexual desires are natural remedies that work to enhance those carnal feelings while being safe and easy to use.
We were inspired to write this article on the heels of the current news story about the two recent clinical trials that revealed that the much discussed female viagra called Flibanserin was a failure in giving boost to women’s sexual desire. The pink pill, marketed by German drug firm Boehringer Ingelheimas, was originally intended as an anti-depressant. It became a potential libido aid after women said while it failed to fight the blues, it did boost their sex drive.
A panel of experts will now decide by vote whether or not its approval for use should be recommended. The FDA noted the drug in some patients caused side effects including depression and dizzyness. Admitting that there was some success achieved through the drug, the FDA still does not see that data as "particularly compelling". However, manufacturer Boehringer Ingelhein has maintained that flibandserin works well and has said that the drug is able to increase a woman’s global desire, suggesting that its effects are not extreme but rather subtle.
The clinical results are now available on website of The Food and Drug Administration, to read the information click here.
Sadly, researchers have informed that a "lack of desire" is the most common sexual problem in women aged 30 to 60, just as erectile dysfunction is the most common sexual disorder among men in the same age bracket.
Now you may be asking 'what is a girl to do?' after reading the above. Have no fear, AskMattandTamsen is here with some suggestions!
Charge Up Some "Sexy"
Buy something sexy for yourself. Make it that new bra and panties set you had your eye on because when you feel sexy, you will act sexier as well. Something as simple as wearing a new sexy outfit can really put you and your partner in the mood for some under the sheets action.
Make A Date...With Your Body
Prepare a romantic meal for yourself, light those new scented candles, run a luxurious bubble bath then get lost in YOU. We are often so busy doing this and that for others that we forget to take time for ourselves. When was the last time you thought about where you like to be touched? Can you quickly describe your favorite sexual fantasy? Seize the moment to remind yourself that you are every inch a very sexual creature! Trust us, by focusing on your own personal pleasure you'll ensure that your sexual partner will be rewarded by your renewed knowledge of "how and where you like it."
Natural Arousal Oils To Massage Your Soul
That's right - arousal oils!
A recent study in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy recently declared that the botanical massage oil Zestra was effective in enhancing sexual arousal in the women, now that's a report we're excited about!
Zestra is a sexual arousal aid that is truly a departure from what is usually available on the consumer market. Zestra is derived from all natural sources unlike synthetically produced warming gels. And, though there are other topically applied products based on plant derivatives, only Zestra Essential Arousal Oils have undergone clinical trial testing. The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy findings indicated that the study subjects demonstrated "statistically significant improvements...in level of arousal, level of desire, satisfaction with arousal, genital sensation, ability to have orgasms, and sexual pleasure."
Zestra's unique ingredients, when blended together, serve to increase blood flow and nerve transmission to a women's genitalia to help those who would otherwise have a difficult time reaching intense pleasure or orgasm do so with less effort and more success.
Zestra is safe, hormone-free, has no known drug interactions, and works in minutes. After applying Zestra to the clitoris and labia, the effects which is described as the "Zestra Rush" begins within three to five minutes, peaks at 10 minutes, and lasts for up to 45 minutes. Sounds like something worth trying once...or er, several times! To learn more about Zestra click here.
Sex Somewhere Else
Ever imagine making love at your favorite restaurant? Pretending you have the whole place to yourselves will add a little spice to the menu..even if it's just you both on your kitchen table. Even more adventurous is to try your apartment stairwell or that little used freight elevator! Swing by that cute little motel you wanted to check out and rent a room for the hour. You will be amazed by how much better the sex is when you make it new and spontaneous...just be aware and careful, you don't wanna get caught!
There they are, just a few tips to spice up your sex life. Remember it is very important to keep building the excitement and romance in your relationship. It’s really not that difficult to add some spark if you are informed and creative. Like our great-grandmother use to say, "it’s the simple things that make all the difference."
Coming up next week in our Series On Serious Sex: The Top Ten Sexiest Movies On DVD!
