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Zestra founders, Rachel Braun Scherl and Mary Wallace Jaensch, get the conversation started!
Dear Zestra,
I am not comfortable introducing products or toys in the bedroom with my husband. Is there a way to make this a little bit easier without insulting him. I really want spice up our sex life.
First of all, being comfortable in a sexual situation is the most important element. Intimacy is as much emotional as it is physical. I think you might be pleasantly surprised that most men are really excited about the idea that their partners are introducing “something new” to the experience or even talking about sex.
Start small, add something that you are comfortable experimenting with, whether you are talking about massagers, oils, lotions or toys, there are all different ways to improve arousal, desire and satisfaction for women.
Again, make sure you are comfortable first and then your partner will be able to do the same.
Have fun and get the spice you deserve!!! For more information about Zestra check out: www.Zestra.com/passion
